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Relationship status: it's complicated.

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How's it going with your job?

You rate the job from the inside. Then the person you live with rates what it does to your life at home. Two scores, one relationship — and the gap between them.

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Inside review · Home review

Every job gets reviewed twice.

Once from the inside, by the person who works there. Once from home, by the person who lives with them.

Two scores for every job: yours and the one from home. The gap between them is the part no other site can show you.

Inside Score

Steady, with conditions

74 · B

How you rate the job

Home Score

It’s complicated

52 · C-

How the person you live with rates it.

Example only, not a company rating. Inside: Steady, with conditions (74 · B) · Home: It’s complicated (52 · C-)—a job that's better to have than to live with.

How it works

Three steps, sixty seconds each.

  1. 01

    Swipe your side

    30 cards, green flag or red flag. Sixty seconds.

  2. 02

    Ask the one who lives with it

    Send one private link. They swipe their side without seeing yours.

  3. 03

    See both sides

    Your two scores side by side — where you agree, where you don't, and what to talk about first.

    Illustrative sample.

    How you rate the job

    Steady, with conditions

    74 · B

    How the person you live with rates it

    It’s complicated

    52 · C-

    Where your household agrees

    • Time off feels protected
    • Pay supports the plan
    • Benefits show up at home

    Where it differs

    • Evenings stay interrupted
    • Recovery takes longer
    • Stress follows work home

    Are you two on the same page about the job?

A quick way in

Start with the moment that changes the room.

Swipe through small, familiar moments. There is no right answer—just a clearer way to name what work asks of home.

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Try a sample card.

Sample card 1 of 3Practice only

Work messages during dinner can wait until after the meal.

A clear boundary

A familiar pressure point

Swipe right for a green flag, left for a red flag. You can also use the buttons or arrow keys. Nothing here is recorded.

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Home review

You are not just confirming someone else's story.

The Home review is your own view from the household. No job expertise required: rate the changed plans, the recovery time, the tension, and the room work takes up at home.

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Inside Score · Home Score

Every job has a relationship status.

Every card is a green flag or a red flag. Your swipes become a score from 0 to 100, with time, stress, and the household counting for more than pay, benefits, and office life.

The higher the score, the better the job comes home.

Married to the job

0–25

It’s complicated

26–50

Steady, with conditions

51–75

A keeper

76–100

See grade scale

The number is primary; the letter grade is a quick shorthand: 90–100 A+ · 85–89 A · 80–84 A- · 75–79 B+ · 70–74 B · 65–69 B- · 60–64 C+ · 55–59 C · 50–54 C- · 45–49 D+ · 40–44 D · 0–39 F.

Coming soon

Get matched.

Once enough people have rated, we'll match you with companies whose Home Score fits the life you actually want — not just the job you'd tolerate.

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FAQ

What you're being asked—and what stays private.

What's the difference between an Inside review and a Home review?

An Inside review is written by someone who works at the company. A Home review is written by someone who lives with them. They answer different cards — the inside deck asks about the job; the home deck asks about the house. Each side gets its own score, and a company page shows both.

How is a score calculated?

Every card is a green flag or a red flag. We turn the swipes into a 0–100 score. The higher the score, the better the job comes home. Six themes — time, stress, pay, benefits, the household, and the inside of the building — with time, stress and the household weighted highest. A company's score is the average of everyone who rated it from that side. The number is primary; the letter grade is a quick shorthand: 90–100 A+ · 85–89 A · 80–84 A- · 75–79 B+ · 70–74 B · 65–69 B- · 60–64 C+ · 55–59 C · 50–54 C- · 45–49 D+ · 40–44 D · 0–39 F.

Can a review identify someone?

No. Your card-by-card answers are never shown to anyone — not your partner, not the company. Only averages across at least five people are ever public, and every written comment is read by a person before it appears.

Before anything is revealed

Nothing here puts anyone on display.

This is not a place to put a relationship, an employee, or a company on display. Protection comes before any public insight.

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Details are removed before anything is shared.

The review flow steers clear of names, exact roles, locations, shifts, and combinations that could point to one household.

Every review is reviewed by people.

We screen submissions for identifying details, personal attacks, and unsupported claims before they affect any public pattern.

Scores wait for real context.

We only show aggregate insights when there are at least five independent, approved reviews from that side.

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Founding period access

Start with a little perspective.

The private household reflection remains free during founding access. Want the longer version? Choose Full Read or Lifetime whenever you’re ready.

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WHY THIS EXISTS.

“A more honest view of work starts at home.”

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